Shower sex is pretty damn hot But between height differences, soap in the wrong places, and slipping and falling, here's how to go to town on each other without the frustration. Let's start with the obvious: safety.
While shower sex is hot and sexy in theoryanyone who has ever actually attempted it can agree that it is in fact, The Worst : Your mobility is super limited because you're in a confined space, the risk of slipping is somehow even more likely now that you're trying to coordinate around a whole other body, you're likely freezing water can't hit both of you at once. And worst of all, the sex actually sucks because water isn't lube and everything feels like smashing two sheets of dry rubber against each other sorry. Thankfully, there are solutions:.
In the movies, shower sex is almost always depicted as being both sexy and easy. The reality, however, can be quite different. The good news is that, with a little forethought, shower sex can be as good as we all want it to be.
Skip navigation! Story from Sex. There's a good chance you've heard about shower sex I mean, there was that whole awkward scene between Veronica and Archie in Riverdale and have maybe even tried it yourself.
Who doesn't get a little turned on when their partner joins them in the shower? The cascading water, the steam, the delicious aromas wafting through the air, and the spanking-clean, naked skin are total aphrodisiacs. But let's be real: Shower sex ain't easy to pull off.
Eyeing the bathroom for your next sex-capade? It is safer to use a condom if you are not planning to get pregnant. But you will need to use some lubrication like K-Y Jelly as water can make the condom less elastic, which will increase friction and make the condom more prone to tears.
So you want to have sex in the shower. Maybe you live in New York City with three roommates in two bunk beds and this is your only hope for privacy. Maybe your SO has BO and you'd like to avoid that whole conversation. Shower sex to the rescue!
Having sex in water sounds so sensual, doesn't it? When you're swimming in a pool or lake, you're practically naked already, so why not slip off your bathing suit and get it on? But, wait: is it safe to have sex in water?
My girlfriend loves sex in the shower. When I really sat with it, I realized that a big part of my reticence to get wet'n'wild in the shower has to do with the extent to which I think of the tiny bathroom of my tiny Chinatown quasi-one-bedroom apartment as a sexy place. After accepting this reality, I began re-imagining my bathroom as a sexy place. I purged the stuff I no longer needed, re-organized my cabinets, made space so that my countertop and sink area was tidy, uncluttered, and free of unsightly, dried toothpaste barnacles.